
I desire to go from ordinary to extraordinary! I desire to be more than an average person on the street! How about you? Have you wondered how many average people ever achieve something of significance? Or shall I put it this way, Can anyone whose highest aspiration is merely average do something extraordinary? Hmm… after searching for an answer for sometime, I realise the answer is Ordinary people can do extraordinary things only if they are willing to give something extra.
After searching, I find that there are 7 ways which we can make a significant impact.
1. A LITTLE EXTRA EFFORT
John Wooden said, “Doing your best is more than being the best.” If “good enough” is good enough, you’ll never be good enough!
2. A LIITLE EXTRA TIME
Peter Lowe said, “The most common trait I have found in all successful people is that they have conquered the temptation to give up.” If that is true of people who achieve success, how much more important it is for people who desire significance.
“Genius is nothing but a greater aptitude for patience!” ~George Buffon
3. A LITTLE EXTRA HELP
There are two sure ways to disaster – taking everybody’s advice and taking nobody’s advice. You quest for significance must come from within. You can’t find it consensus. However, you can’t go it alone either. You need the advice of experienced people who can help you.
4. A LITTLE EXTRA REALISM
The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. Leaders must have vision for what could be, but they must also look hard at what really is.
5. A LITTLE EXTRA CHANGE
Most people don’t change because they see the light. They do it only when they feel the heat. But as a leader, if you are already feeling the hear, it’s too late to make a change. Leaders must be ready, willing, and able to change before anyone else. And the first change they must be ready to make is in themselves.
6. A LITTLE EXTRA THINKING
Earl Nightingale said “You are and you become what you think about.” If that’s true, then you need to spend more time thinking, because it will determine not only your effectiveness but also your identity.
7. A LITTLE EXTRA PLANNING
It’s true that planning is beneficial for anyone. But it’s essential for leaders. What they do impacts everyone on their team. And what they model is emulated by their people. So how should you plan? Cardiologist Robert Eliot suggests the following, “It’s important to run not on the fast tract, but on your track. Pretend you have only 6 months to live, and make 3 lists: the things you have to do, want to do, and neither have to do nor want to do. Then for the rest of your life, forget everything on the third list!”